Why Kindness Week Isn’t Enough (And What to Do About It)
As a teacher, I’m all for celebrating kindness. Don’t get me wrong—it’s beautiful to see kids write little notes to each other, hold doors open, and smile more intentionally for a week. But if we’re being honest, a “Kindness Week” doesn’t cut it when it comes to teaching kids what kindness really is—or helping them build habits that last longer than the next assembly. Lately, I’ve been inspired by the work of Andrew Huberman, a neuroscientist who dives into how the brain actually works. And while he hasn’t specifically addressed Kindness Week, his research on habits, emotions, and neuroplasticity (how our brains change and grow) has me rethinking what we’re doing in schools when it comes to kindness. Spoiler: We can do better. The Science of Kindness Huberman’s research would remind us that kindness isn’t just a nice idea—it’s a literal brain workout. Here’s what happens in the brain when we’re kind: 1. Oxytocin gets released (that’s the “bonding hormone”), ...