Why Restorative Practices Aren’t Working (And How We Fix Them)
There’s a trend in schools right now— restorative practices. If you’re not familiar, the idea is that instead of traditional discipline (detention, suspension, etc.), kids have conversations about their behavior, reflect on their actions, and find ways to repair harm. Sounds nice, right? Sure, in theory. But here’s the problem: the real world doesn’t work like that. If you speed , you don’t get a cozy circle discussion with a police officer about how you feel about going 90 mph in a school zone. You get a ticket. If you don’t pay your mortgage , the bank doesn’t invite you to a restorative conversation. You lose your house. So why are we pretending kids don’t need to learn about real consequences? The Brain Learns from Consequences Let’s talk about brain science for a second (because, you know, I’m all about that ). The prefrontal cortex (The Mighty Owl) helps us plan ahead and make good choices. But it doesn’t fully develop until around age 25. So kids? Yeah, not the best decision-...